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She Should Know

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By: Loftonall
Mood: disappointed
Date: 01/03/2008 22:53:21
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I have nothing against Gay people.  As a matter of fact one of my best friends is a Gay male.  But what I do have a problem with is our brothers who want to be viewed as a strong black man who like the company of women, only to find out that he also like the company of men.  We all know that these men are called "Men on the Down Low".  Personally I do not care what they do but I feel like woman are being disrespected once again.  First we had the black man lusting after the white woman, now we have our black man lusting after another man.  This is not new because gay men have been around for a long time.  What is new is that they are living double lives Gay by day and husband by night.  African-American women are 23 times as likely to be infected with the Aids virus as white women and account for 71.8% of new HIV cases among women in 29 US states , government research shows. 
The Kaiser Family Foundation, a non-profit health organization, has found that in 2001 roughly 67% of black women with Aids had contracted the virus through heterosexual sex - up from 58% four years earlier. This is why I think "She Should Know".  How can we stop our daughters,mothers, nieces and sisters from being part of this statistics.  I think we need to take a stand and fight back.  We need to be able to make the choice if we want to sleep with a bisexual man or not.  I think they need to be exposed not because they are bisexual but because they are taking away our choices.  When our brothers went to the white woman it killed our spirit, but this is literally killing our soul,  destorying our families leaving our kids motherless.  I would love to get feedback on how you think we can expose and or get control of this situation.  Lets fight back


 


 



  







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From: Stephen
01/05/2008 14:56:24

 

From a strong straight black man.  I also do not have anything against gays.  But gay or straight to take away someone's right to CHOSE is just WRONG!  We all need (including myself) to stop being selfish and consider others especially the one's we so-called love or care about.

We all have choices, Brothers don't take hers away because you're scared.  And in my option there appears to be, in some a sadistic spirit or a spirt of self destruction, all stemming from a person not loving themselves first.  (We can get  into this more in another topic...)

Regarding the choices a woman (or man for that fact) may make, if a dumb ass man doesn't inform his female partner, how can she make a n intelligent choice.  We are a trusting people and we most often give each other the benefit of the doubt. Yes we should seek God in every aspect of our lives.  We should, but since we don't always follow what we know ist the right things to do,  we should not be penalized.  And those women that are infected should not be used by a person of bad or immoral intent.

This Needs To STOP... Man Up - Be A Real Man! 



01/04/2008 18:44:46
I agree with ya on this, Its a shame that there are alot of Black Women getting caught up in this.  But if your a Black Woman out there and you don't have HIV learn from the ones who have it and don't make the same choices they did if you wanna get a man in your life seek after the Man upstairs first and then He'll make sure you get the man thats right for you so many women and men make bad choices and thats simply because they don't seek GOD first about who they wanna share their their life with 





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